Fulfillment   Leave a comment

I’m restless and lonely and unhappy again.  Sure, I know by now that it has a physical backdrop, that the reason I’m feeling low is because the physical body isn’t in top shape.  Still it’s always difficult to take that knowledge and use it to separate the truth from the loneliness.  I want to know that there are friends there for me.  I don’t like feeling alone.  And often, that longing goes farther and spills into irritation because friends or family aren’t interested in spending time together, or don’t seem to know I exist.  Then I get bitter and resentful.

But why is this happening in the first place?  Why is there all this bitterness and discontent, especially when my needs in so many other areas of my life have been so beautifully met?  Why isn’t it enough that I have a loving husband, three wonderful children, meaningful work and a lovely home?

Why do I always want more and why isn’t what I have enough?  And honestly, why do I chuckle at those “other people” who are never content with their material belongings?  Why do I think I’m immune for the longing for more?

Envy is an ugly thing.  It takes a normal desire and turns it into an endless quest for a new friend who will always be what I want her to be.  I find myself angry at others because–bottom line–they are not doing what I want.  It’s insane.  I don’t want other people to treat me that way, so why do I make these demands of others?

My desire to be loved, honored and valued is a God-given one.

The problem is that I don’t look to God for those longings to be fulfilled.  I constantly turn to other people to meet that need.  That’s why it’s never filled, because looking to others it absolutely never can be filled.  The well of need is way too deep for any human being to fill.


Posted July 9, 2018 by swanatbagend in character, relationships

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: